tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post3945524207257189031..comments2024-03-13T06:55:06.760+05:30Comments on Meanderings and Reflections: I continue to surprise myselfS. Susan Deborahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-6849711864398294692010-11-14T10:05:01.981+05:302010-11-14T10:05:01.981+05:30CS:
That is what I have done. Have a good Sunday ...CS:<br /><br />That is what I have done. Have a good Sunday :)S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-58351768880619523142010-11-13T17:11:33.358+05:302010-11-13T17:11:33.358+05:30By writing blog and asking my blog buddies. :DBy writing blog and asking my blog buddies. :DChandrika Shubhamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16765666976286325907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-86520458041585343972010-11-13T14:25:34.530+05:302010-11-13T14:25:34.530+05:30Ruchi:
We are all learning, relearning and unlear...Ruchi:<br /><br />We are all learning, relearning and unlearning all the time. Who says life is boring? It is a full-time business.<br /><br />Hope your weekend is rolling well and happy.<br /><br />Big hugs and much love :)S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-81595146283766026912010-11-13T14:24:15.399+05:302010-11-13T14:24:15.399+05:30DUTA:
Learning and trying to improve: This seems ...DUTA:<br /><br />Learning and trying to improve: This seems a constant process :)<br /><br />Karen:<br /><br />Absolutely :)S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-83079675292155974252010-11-13T14:23:13.859+05:302010-11-13T14:23:13.859+05:30Silver:
Oh, yes. Improving . . . failing . . . im...Silver:<br /><br />Oh, yes. Improving . . . failing . . . improving.<br /><br />Govind:<br /><br />Love all? Oh, yes. Better said than done.S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-48192333708778429142010-11-13T14:22:09.502+05:302010-11-13T14:22:09.502+05:30Myriam:
I find myself in that place almost every ...Myriam:<br /><br />I find myself in that place almost every single time. <br /><br />Nevine:<br /><br />You are quite true about the prototype. I think I imagine myself to se this, this, this but when that does not happen, it gives rise to a situation like the one in the post. I also like the fact that I am ever evolving but sometimes the negatives score a bit too much and that baffles my sensibilities.<br />Hope you are having a good and restful weekend, dearest Nevine. And immense hugs back to you from India.S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-66200971597777038322010-11-13T14:19:07.913+05:302010-11-13T14:19:07.913+05:30Dulce:
Ah! The parameters are so steep :) Big hug...Dulce:<br /><br />Ah! The parameters are so steep :) Big hugs and much love, dearest Dulce.<br /><br />GQ:<br /><br />How can one be in denial of one's self? <br /><br />Dulce:<br /><br />Love your entire self, Dulce and not your ass alone!S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-63694112273992797992010-11-13T14:17:12.967+05:302010-11-13T14:17:12.967+05:30Linda:
Advice taken. You're a darling :)
Joe...Linda:<br /><br />Advice taken. You're a darling :)<br /><br />Joe:<br /><br />Old are wise . . .S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-12708982172549857892010-11-13T14:16:14.746+05:302010-11-13T14:16:14.746+05:30Sameera:
Ah. You are a comfort :)
Hope:
I am fo...Sameera:<br /><br />Ah. You are a comfort :)<br /><br />Hope:<br /><br />I am forever learning but sometimes the ME never ceases to make me wonder and feel: "Is this me?"S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-51276555463480718392010-11-13T14:15:07.128+05:302010-11-13T14:15:07.128+05:30Savira:
Same with me as well! I don't actuall...Savira:<br /><br />Same with me as well! I don't actually know whether I am liking it but I am enjoying it :) Confusing, ah? For me as well.<br /><br />RGB:<br /><br />Glad to see you after some time. I repeat it over and over, shamelessly :) Still a long way to go . . .S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-37388280696139716582010-11-13T14:13:25.410+05:302010-11-13T14:13:25.410+05:30Brian:
A great challenge indeed but with practice...Brian:<br /><br />A great challenge indeed but with practice, it becomes an everyday process. Sometimes I find it so difficult to accept the ME.<br /><br />Naijalines:<br /><br />Thanks for the insights you have given me. I am glad that there are many who observe the journey within. Happy to see you again :)S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-4575990313584080702010-11-13T14:11:16.049+05:302010-11-13T14:11:16.049+05:30John:
Fruit for thought. Jung said this long time...John:<br /><br />Fruit for thought. Jung said this long time ago.<br /><br />Blogoratti:<br /><br />The journey seems everlasting. Thanks for swinging by.S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-7607443100934846152010-11-13T14:10:04.269+05:302010-11-13T14:10:04.269+05:30Myrna:
I have figured that from the comments here...Myrna:<br /><br />I have figured that from the comments here, dear Myrna. Meanderings and reflections keep me alive and kicking.<br /><br />Zuzana:<br /><br />With age so many introspection happens and baffle us. You have rightly mentioned that these thoughts help us to grow and achieve insight.S. Susan Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08885957854901839400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-82716466139583810062010-11-13T12:07:19.071+05:302010-11-13T12:07:19.071+05:30thank you for this post Susan...I am faced with th...thank you for this post Susan...I am faced with this as well. Although, introspection does help, but these dilemmas you have mentioned in the post make it tougher. What I do usually is accept it all and try really hard, to not be judgemental ( its not foolproof, I admit :P) but it does help me be at peace with myself and concentrate on improving myself, my attitude, and reactions.<br />However reading your thoughts and all the comments here, I can take heart that we all are faced with such situations at some point in time. The best part is everyone's honest endeavdour to work towards facing it and dealing with it...Cheers to the human spirit :)<br />lots and lots of love and hugs<br />:)Ruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02786696824343717257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-36212781776081098012010-11-13T01:51:15.756+05:302010-11-13T01:51:15.756+05:30True, we do not live up to our own judgmental stan...True, we do not live up to our own judgmental standards sometimes... how can we expect others to live upto it.Karen Xavierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05447610927040841849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-4832754760692164402010-11-12T23:36:24.076+05:302010-11-12T23:36:24.076+05:30You are a very sensitive person being surprised/sh...You are a very sensitive person being surprised/shocked/confused by such things.<br /><br />We are human, and so we err. We misunderstand at times both ourselves and others. but we also learn a lot from these misunderstandings, and this helps us go on with Life.DUTAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12979375799258978432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-59836321684394711412010-11-12T23:15:39.451+05:302010-11-12T23:15:39.451+05:30On others if there is even a small smudge
we are n...On others if there is even a small smudge<br />we are never too late to judge<br />but when we go over the edge<br />we don't as much as budge or at best fudge.<br /><br />It is a great learning not to be judgemental.It is easy really. We are critical of people we don't like. The trick is to love all.Govindhttp://www.satmuse.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-72748598117567606702010-11-12T17:24:19.162+05:302010-11-12T17:24:19.162+05:30Well, Susan dearest.. that only reminds us that we...Well, Susan dearest.. that only reminds us that we are all just fallible mortals, and we are all very similar even though we aren't.<br /><br />Perhaps, that continues to boggles our mind so that we will continue to learn to accept the faults of others whime improving ourselves continually.<br /><br />love,<br />SilverSilverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15559987944096301573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-90375665617881590872010-11-12T04:03:12.362+05:302010-11-12T04:03:12.362+05:30This issue, my dear Susan, is not to be resolved. ...This issue, my dear Susan, is not to be resolved. If it were resolved, how boring would life be? How suffering the human condition? I mean, we are truly a work in progress... always evolving... changing as the wind blows. Every time we think we've got ourselves set in stone, something must happen to remind us that, "Self... don't go thinking I'm finished with you." Somewhere in our minds, we have a prototype of how we picture ourselves to be. But we are not a statue that is being carved out of marble or bronze. And so, the prototype is never satisfied.<br /><br />I like the fact that we are ever evolving. I like that we change... because we must. I like that sometimes we find flaws in ourselves we thought we hated in another. Somehow, all of this keeps us human. It reminds us of our fallibility... and our mortality.<br /><br />What an inspiring post, my dear!<br /><br />Immense hugs,<br />NevineNevine Sultanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08794887684860140819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-89543907124007488562010-11-12T02:06:17.446+05:302010-11-12T02:06:17.446+05:30great question, no answer. Not from me.
I guess i...great question, no answer. Not from me. <br />I guess it is a good thing that we can at the very least realized we are doing something we critized in somebody else. That is awareness that allows growth or at least I hope something good can come out of that. <br />This post got me thinking..I have found myself there many times.A Plain Observerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03741520771592669741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-34732569766733370432010-11-12T01:11:15.878+05:302010-11-12T01:11:15.878+05:30Sorry I meant 'as' ha ha haaa
Now don'...Sorry I meant 'as' ha ha haaa<br />Now don't go judging me because I wrote 'ass' in your comment oh my !<br /><br />It was a mistake-which gives me the chance to add, you see how easy it is to make mistakes, and eventually be judged and sometimes never be forgiven for them<br />(But I know you will forgive my little ass and laugh with me...) Amazing miracles of life...<br /><br />Hugs sweet Susan<br />:)Dulçe ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/14958592985938279356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-59613090502130247602010-11-12T01:07:39.576+05:302010-11-12T01:07:39.576+05:30Your post reminded me of when Jesus said, "Wh...Your post reminded me of when Jesus said, "Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?"<br />OUCH! <br />But your question how do I handle it? Mostly I stay in denial about how bad my own attitudes and behavoir is. If I look at others short commings I don't have to look at mine.Grayquillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03118855928142920785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-42908766259460324272010-11-12T01:07:24.610+05:302010-11-12T01:07:24.610+05:30Not judging is so difficult... I guess it can only...Not judging is so difficult... I guess it can only stop when we stop judging ourselves. Ass simple and difficult as that.Dulçe ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/14958592985938279356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-21517054842956578692010-11-12T00:12:36.136+05:302010-11-12T00:12:36.136+05:30As one grows older, they realise that judging othe...As one grows older, they realise that judging others is not an easy task, because the same yard stick applies to us.<br />That is why they say that the old are wise.Haddockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11573906991666088642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7205157387819958650.post-26873173716852214602010-11-12T00:11:49.670+05:302010-11-12T00:11:49.670+05:30I think it's important to realize that we are ...I think it's important to realize that we are all just people, and people are flawed. I think we all can see the error of someone else's ways, but have a more difficult time with our own short comings. Don't judge yourself too harshly!Linda Medranohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03440058568073764902noreply@blogger.com